Sunday, April 18, 2010

Easter Fun!

I love Easter and am discovering that it is even more special with a kid. The week prior to Easter Logan and I dyed eggs at the house. He was concerned that the eggs where dying...darn English language! Logan remembered celebrating Easter last year and was psyched about the Easter bunny (EB) visiting again. He swears he heard the EB "hop, hop, hopping" outside his window last year. Logan was completely preoccupied with worry that the EB wouldn't know that we would be in Conway and would "hop, hop, hop" to the wrong house. I sent several emails to the EB but Logan's fears were only calmed when he received a card in the mail from the EB confirming our intended whereabouts. (Thank you, Sweet P!) Once that was settled, we packed up our eggs in a cooler and headed towards Conway with plans to hunt every egg in sight!



Saturday morning Logan, Trey, and I headed to Laurel Park for FUMC's egg hunt. I was concerned that there would be an egg limit and Logan would have a related meltdown. After stressing all morning, I was relieved to learn it was first come, first serve! After a prayer and a whistle the hunt was on! Logan was polite and thoughtful in his hunting. I was extremely proud! He found 7 eggs and was thrilled to discover that they were filled with candy...who knew?

Sunday morning we dressed in our fancy duds and headed to church with my mom & dad, grandpa & grandma, and brother. I can't begin to describe how special it is to share holidays with family at church. We missed this experience while living away. David brought Logan into "big church" following communion to hear FUMC's traditional Halleluah Chorus in which anyone can join the choir in the choir loft to sing. Logan was thrilled to see his Granddude singing in the choir loft! He still talks about Dude singing up high. We left church and headed to mom & dad's for Easter dinner and a second egg hunt. The meal was wonderful and the cake I made turned out cute! The EB found Logan as promised and left a stellar stash! Logan loves his new baseball glove and has donned his Super Why costume off and on since Easter. What a lucky boy!





After a nap, we packed up and headed to Russellville for a 3rd hunt and a yummy dinner with Grand and Big Phil. Logan loves playing at their house and who could blame him...swingset fort with fireman pole, chickens, Queenie the puppy, barn, tree swing, space to run, and dirt to collect head to toe! In fact, we had so much fun that I forgot to get the camera out of the car. Please imagine pictures of Logan covered in dirt, Logan filling a basket with a million eggs, Trey and Carolyn walking through the garden dreaming of future projects, Phil grilling steaks, and all of us laughing together!
One cute Easter story that wouldn't fit in the timeline text above. Before heading to Conway, Logan asked "Mommy, can I go to the Easter Bunny's house?" I said "No, buddy, the EB is too busy preparing for Easter." Logan, "Then can I go to Jesus' house to play?" Me: "Not today." Logan: "But he loves all the children of the world!" Easter is a special holiday and was made all the more special this year in the fact that we could celebrate in the company of our family. Thanks gang!

Camp Cousin












I haven't blogged for awhile and have much to report. The next few may be out of order but you can deal with it, right? Although Logan is generally doing better with me staying home with him, he desperately misses playing with friends. I know once we are relocated we can establish some regular play dates as well as Sunday School and (in the fall) preschool. For now though, he is pretty much stuck with mommy and the dogs. He broke my heart Easter Sunday when we picked him up from Sunday School. I asked how it went and he reported in his saddest voice "I don't got no friends today." (note...grammar lessons continue!) I feel stuck and unable to fix his loneliness. We don't know anyone in Memphis with kiddos and our schedule hasn't allowed for much socialization in Conway. I came up with a perfect (and yet insane) plan. I texted my lovely sister-in-law and asked if she would let me borrow my niece for 4 days/3 nights for Camp Cousin. She was more than willing, which is amazing to me, as I'm anxious spending just one night away from my little monster. Michelle has been asking for over a year to keep Logan overnight and I haven't been ready. I'm sure he'd do fine but I'm not quite there yet. (In my defense, currently the only time Logan has with his daddy is on the weekends and I'm not willing to give up that time right now. Once we move...I'm sure I'll have to come up with another excuse or give in and ship my kid off.)
Logan was ecstatic when I told him Paige was coming to our house. He made big plans to take her to the park, paint, and play catch with her. Trey and my parents were gracious enough to permit the dogs to stay in Conway so I didn't completely lose my mind. Our schedule was as follows:
Tues:
  • Pick up Paige from daycare after her nap
  • Drive 3 hours to our house - 2 potty breaks & 2 "pull over on the side of the road" breaks
  • Dinner
  • Bath (anatomy lesson #1)
  • Stories & Bedtime

Wed:

  • Kids came downstairs @ 6:45a for breakfast
  • Arts & Crafts extravaganza (color pillowcases, paint wooden letters, paint stories)
  • Playdoh
  • Lunch (Paige learned how to eat green beans. She ate the little peas out of the bean and
    said she didn't like the wrappers. Funny girl!)
  • Nap (2 hours!?)
  • Make cookies
  • Outside to play in the dirt
  • Spaghetti dinner
  • Bath (anatomy lesson #2), story time, bed
Thurs:
  • Kids came downstairs NAKED!? @ 6:15a for breakfast (anatomy lesson #3)
  • Backyard to play in garden
  • Dance party!
  • Shower painting (shaving cream + paint brushes = awesome shower fun!)
  • Lunch - Make your own pizzas
  • Nap (1 1/2 hours!)
  • Park & Nature hike
  • Dinner, bath, story time, bed
Fri: Kids came downstairs @ 5:30a and stood by my bed until I opened my eyes. Scared the living daylights out of me! Fortunately I did not wet the bed! We had to be in North Little Rock to pass off Paige to her Nana at 1p so the morning was spent rushing around to pack and clean the house.

Logan and Paige had a fabulous time together and there were fewer meltdowns than I had anticipated. Logan had some trouble sharing his toys and Paige had some trouble following rules that are different from the rules at her house. In some ways having both of them was easier than just Logan because they entertained one another and I had free time to finish projects. They only painted on one wall and it was completely washable. I think Paige only went home with one bruise and Logan only had one welt. I loved watching the two of them explore together. I haven't had the opportunity to watch Logan play with other kids his age and it was neat to see areas he excels in and areas in which we need to work on. I discovered areas in which each kid has talents and strengths. The most surprising outcome of this adventure was a boost in my parenting abilities. Logan's behavior has been challenging the past month. His behavior was HORRIBLE during a recent trip to visit friends and family in Missouri and I was absolutely mortified and shell shocked. I learned during this week that (1) He is 3, (2) He has learned values and morals and is able to demonstrate them on occasion, (3) I can handle 2 kids with minimal damage...I will survive his periodic outbursts. All in all, I have no extra bald spots and am willing to host Camp Cousin again sometime in the far off future.